Is PMS just something you have to put up with?
No. Irritability, bloating, low mood and cravings before a period are common, but they are not something you have to endure, and they are not “just hormones”. They have identifiable drivers — hormone balance, nutrient status, blood sugar, stress load — and most of those can be investigated and changed, alongside your GP.
Irritability, breast tenderness, bloating, low mood, cravings, headaches, a short fuse with the people you love most — and then a period arrives and it lifts. Most women who come to us have been told some version of “that’s just hormones”, offered the pill, and sent on their way.
It is not “all in your head”, and you do not have to learn to live with it. Premenstrual symptoms are common, but common is not the same as normal, and it is certainly not the same as untreatable. Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) sits at the severe end of that spectrum, where the mood changes are disabling rather than annoying — and it deserves to be taken seriously rather than dismissed.
Our approach is to stop treating the symptom list as the problem and start asking what is driving it.